“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” – Ephesians 5:25
Bible Verses About Struggling Marriage
Understanding Love in Marriage
In the scripture, we are reminded that love is at the core of a strong marriage. As we navigate through challenging times, we should focus on what true love means in our partnership. The Bible teaches us that love is patient, kind, and selfless. When we are truly connected to our spouse, we can face any struggle together. Love leads us to forgive, to support, and to see the best in one another, even when circumstances seem tough. Our commitment to love in our marriage reflects our commitment to God. It encourages us to mirror the love that Christ has for his church in how we treat each other.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Colossians 3:14
“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” – Colossians 3:14
1 John 4:19
“We love because he first loved us.” – 1 John 4:19
Ephesians 5:33
“Each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.” – Ephesians 5:33
Song of Solomon 8:6
“Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave.” – Song of Solomon 8:6
The Importance of Communication
Effective communication is an essential ingredient for a healthy marriage. When we find ourselves struggling, it is often due to missed messages or misunderstandings. The Bible encourages us to speak with love and honesty, which can help us resolve our differences and deepen our connection. Communication isn’t just about exchanging words; it’s about expressing our emotions and intentions clearly. When we truly listen to one another, we create a safe space where our marriage can thrive, even in trying times.
Proverbs 18:13
“To answer before listening—that is folly and shame.” – Proverbs 18:13
Ephesians 4:29
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” – Ephesians 4:29
James 1:19
“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” – James 1:19
Proverbs 15:1
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” – Proverbs 15:1
1 Peter 3:8
“Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble.” – 1 Peter 3:8
Seeking Forgiveness
In every relationship, it’s natural to make mistakes or hurt one another unintentionally. The Bible teaches us the importance of seeking forgiveness, whether we are the ones who have caused hurt or the ones hurting. In order for our marriage to flourish, we must be willing to forgive and ask for forgiveness when necessary. It helps mend the bonds and deepens our love for one another. Forgiveness doesn’t always come easy, but it is a powerful step towards healing.
Matthew 6:14-15
“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” – Matthew 6:14-15
Ephesians 4:32
“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” – Ephesians 4:32
Colossians 3:13
“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” – Colossians 3:13
Luke 6:37
“Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.” – Luke 6:37
Mark 11:25
“And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.” – Mark 11:25
Financial Challenges in Marriage
Money can be a major area of stress in a marriage. When we are struggling financially, it can create tension and arguments. The Bible encourages us to be wise with our finances and to seek God’s guidance in our financial decisions. Working together as a team during challenging times can help strengthen our bond, and understanding that true security comes from God, not material wealth, is critical. By leaning on each other and God, we can navigate the struggles we face together.
Philippians 4:19
“And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:19
1 Timothy 6:10
“For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.” – 1 Timothy 6:10
Proverbs 21:20
“The wise store up choice food and olive oil, but fools gulp theirs down.” – Proverbs 21:20
Malachi 3:10
“Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the Lord Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it.” – Malachi 3:10
Proverbs 30:8-9
“Keep falsehood and lies far from me; give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my daily bread. Otherwise, I may have too much and disown you and say, ‘Who is the Lord?’ Or I may become poor and steal, and so dishonor the name of my God.” – Proverbs 30:8-9
Turning to God in Struggles
In our most trying moments, we are called to turn to God for strength and guidance. He is there to help us heal and guide our decisions. Leaning on our faith can provide us with peace that surpasses understanding and help us navigate through difficult times. When we place our struggles in His hands, we also find relief and a renewed sense of partnership with our spouse. Strength in marriage comes from facing challenges together with God at the center, knowing He will uplift us both in our times of need.
Philippians 4:6-7
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:6-7
Psalm 46:1
“God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.” – Psalm 46:1
James 1:5
“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” – James 1:5
Isaiah 41:10
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” – Isaiah 41:10
Romans 12:12
“Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.” – Romans 12:12
Strengthening Your Bond
Finding ways to strengthen our marital bond, especially during tough times, is vital for overcoming struggles. It takes commitment and effort from both partners. Let’s remember to invest time in each other, pray together, and celebrate the little moments. Our relationship is a journey that we are on together, and every bond can be made stronger with intentional actions of love and appreciation. Building a strong foundation will help us withstand the storms that come our way.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them.” – Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
1 Thessalonians 5:11
“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Hebrews 10:24-25
“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” – Hebrews 10:24-25
Proverbs 17:17
“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.” – Proverbs 17:17
Colossians 2:2
“My goal is that they may be encouraged in heart and united in love, so that they may have the full riches of complete understanding, in order that they may know the mystery of God, namely, Christ.” – Colossians 2:2
Final Thoughts
Marriage isn’t always easy, but when we rely on Scripture, we can find the encouragement we need during struggles. We must remember that love, communication, forgiveness, and turning to God are essential. By putting our faith in His teachings and supporting one another, we can overcome challenges. Let’s take the opportunity to strengthen our bond, seeking help where needed, and continually encourage each other. Our journey together reflects our commitment to God and each other, leading to a fulfilling and joyful marriage.
For those seeking guidance, remember that love and forgiveness play a critical role in building a resilient marriage. We can each seek to restore our love and understanding by turning to biblical wisdom, which is applicable to our lives today. I encourage you to explore our other resources about love and forgiveness in marriage or restoring your marriage as you continue on this path.