Confrontation is often necessary for growth, but it must be done with wisdom. These Bible verses provide guidance on how to approach difficult conversations with love, truth, and humility, aiming for reconciliation and understanding.
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Bible Verses About Confrontation
Matthew 18:15 – Confronting someone who has sinned against you.
“If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you. If they listen to you, you have won them over.” – Matthew 18:15
Galatians 2:11 – Confronting someone who is in the wrong.
“When Cephas came to Antioch, I opposed him to his face, because he stood condemned.” – Galatians 2:11
Proverbs 27:5 – The value of open rebuke over concealed love.
“Better is open rebuke than hidden love.” – Proverbs 27:5
James 5:19-20 – Restoring someone who strays from the truth.
“My brothers and sisters, if one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring that person back, remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a multitude of sins.” – James 5:19-20
Proverbs 28:23 – Confronting the wicked brings more favor than flattery.
“Whoever rebukes a person will in the end gain favor rather than one who has a flattering tongue.” – Proverbs 28:23
Psalm 141:5 – Being willing to receive correction from the righteous.
“Let a righteous man strike me – it is a kindness; let him rebuke me – it is oil on my head. My head will not refuse it, for my prayer will still be against the deeds of evildoers.” – Psalm 141:5
2 Timothy 3:16 – Scripture is useful for correcting and rebuking.
“All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness.” – 2 Timothy 3:16
Proverbs 27:6 – Wounds from a friend can be trusted.
“Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.” – Proverbs 27:6
Luke 17:3 – Forgiving someone who repents after being rebuked.
“So watch yourselves. If your brother or sister sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them.” – Luke 17:3
Proverbs 15:1 – A gentle answer turns away wrath.
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” – Proverbs 15:1
Proverbs 25:9 – Settle matters privately rather than exposing them publicly.
“If you take your neighbor to court, do not betray another’s confidence, or the one who hears it may shame you and the charge against you will stand.” – Proverbs 25:9
2 Corinthians 10:8 – Our authority is given for building up, not tearing down.
“For even if I boast somewhat freely about the authority the Lord gave us for building you up rather than tearing you down, I will not be ashamed of it.” – 2 Corinthians 10:8
Proverbs 9:8 – Don’t rebuke a mocker or they will hate you.
“Do not rebuke mockers or they will hate you; rebuke the wise and they will love you.” – Proverbs 9:8
Titus 1:13 – Rebuking false teachers so they may be sound in faith.
“This saying is true. Therefore rebuke them sharply, so that they will be sound in the faith.” – Titus 1:13
Proverbs 10:17 – Listening to rebuke leads to life.
“Whoever heeds discipline shows the way to life, but whoever ignores correction leads others astray.” – Proverbs 10:17
Proverbs 12:1 – Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge.
“Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but whoever hates correction is stupid.” – Proverbs 12:1
2 Timothy 4:2 – Correct, rebuke, and encourage with great patience.
“Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage – with great patience and careful instruction.” – 2 Timothy 4:2
Proverbs 19:25 – Rebuke the wise, they will become wiser.
“Flog a mocker, and the simple will learn prudence; rebuke the discerning, and they will gain knowledge.” – Proverbs 19:25
Titus 2:15 – Rebuke with authority, so that no one despises you.
“These, then, are the things you should teach. Encourage and rebuke with all authority. Do not let anyone despise you.” – Titus 2:15
Proverbs 9:7 – Rebuke a mocker, they will hate you.
“Whoever corrects a mocker invites insults; whoever rebukes the wicked incurs abuse.” – Proverbs 9:7
1 Timothy 5:20 – Rebuking the elders who persist in sin.
“But those elders who are sinning you are to reprove before everyone, so that the others may take warning.” – 1 Timothy 5:20
Ephesians 5:11 – Expose the deeds of darkness.
“Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.” – Ephesians 5:11
2 Timothy 4:3 – Rebuking those who have itching ears for false teachings.
“For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear.” – 2 Timothy 4:3
Luke 3:19 – John rebukes Herod for his wickedness.
“But when John rebuked Herod the tetrarch because of his marriage to Herodias, his brother’s wife, and all the other evil things he had done.” – Luke 3:19
1 Corinthians 5:2-5 – Rebuking the immoral person within the church.
“And you are proud! Shouldn’t you rather have gone into mourning and have put out of your fellowship the man who has been doing this? For my part, even though I am not physically present, I am with you in spirit. As one who is present with you in this way, I have already passed judgment in the name of our Lord Jesus on the one who has been doing this. So when you are assembled and I am with you in spirit, and the power of our Lord Jesus is present, hand this man over to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, so that his spirit may be saved on the day of the Lord.” – 1 Corinthians 5:2-5
2 Timothy 2:25-26 – Teaching, correcting, and rebuking with gentleness.
“Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will.” – 2 Timothy 2:25-26
Proverbs 15:31 – Listening to constructive criticism leads to understanding.
“Whoever heeds life-giving correction will be at home among the wise.” – Proverbs 15:31
Hebrews 12:5 – The Lord rebukes and disciplines those He loves.
“And have you completely forgotten this word of encouragement that addresses you as a father addresses his son? It says, “My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline, and do not lose heart when he rebukes you.” – Hebrews 12:5
Titus 3:10 – Rejecting divisive people after a second warning.
“Warn a divisive person once, and then warn them a second time. After that, have nothing to do with them.” – Titus 3:10
Matthew 23:13 – Jesus rebukes the Pharisees for their hypocrisy.
“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You shut the door of the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to.” – Matthew 23:13
2 Peter 2:16 – Balaam’s rebuke by a donkey for his wrongdoing.
“But he was rebuked for his wrongdoing by a donkey—a beast without speech—who spoke with a human voice and restrained the prophet’s madness.” – 2 Peter 2:16
Proverbs 27:17 – As iron sharpens iron, one person sharpens another.
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” – Proverbs 27:17
Jude 1:23 – Rebuking with caution, saving others with fear.
“Others save with fear, pulling them out of the fire, hating even the garment defiled by the flesh.” – Jude 1:23
Titus 2:11-15 – Teaching, rebuking, and living godly lives.
“For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It teaches us to say ‘No’ to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, while we wait for the blessed hope—the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good. These, then, are the things you should teach. Encourage and rebuke with all authority. Do not let anyone despise you.” – Titus 2:11-15
1 Thessalonians 5:14 – Admonish the idle, encourage the disheartened.
“And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:14
Luke 3:8 – Produce fruit in keeping with repentance.
“Produce fruit in keeping with repentance. And do not begin to say to yourselves, ‘We have Abraham as our father.’ For I tell you that out of these stones God can raise up children for Abraham.” – Luke 3:8
Proverbs 13:1 – Heeding discipline leads to wisdom.
“A wise son heeds his father’s instruction, but a mocker does not respond to rebukes.” – Proverbs 13:1
1 Corinthians 14:26 – Speaking in the church to build others up.
“What then shall we say, brothers and sisters? When you come together, each of you has a hymn, or a word of instruction, a revelation, a tongue or an interpretation. Everything must be done so that the church may be built up.” – 1 Corinthians 14:26
Proverbs 29:15 – Correcting your child to give them wisdom.
“A rod and a reprimand impart wisdom, but a child left undisciplined disgraces its mother.” – Proverbs 29:15
Proverbs 29:1 – Persisting in disobedience results in destruction.
“Whoever remains stiff-necked after many rebukes will suddenly be destroyed—without remedy.” – Proverbs 29:1
Leviticus 19:17 – Rebuking your neighbor when necessary.
“Do not hate a fellow Israelite in your heart. Rebuke your neighbor frankly so you will not share in their guilt.” – Leviticus 19:17
Proverbs 15:2 – The tongue of the wise uses knowledge rightly.
“The tongue of the wise adorns knowledge, but the mouth of the fool gushes folly.” – Proverbs 15:2
Proverbs 15:12 – A mocker does not love anyone who corrects them.
“Mockers resent correction, so they avoid the wise.” – Proverbs 15:12