“Where there is strife, there is pride, but wisdom is found in those who take advice.” – Proverbs 13:10
Bible Verses About Brothers Fighting
Proverbs 17:14 – Getting into disputes can escalate conflicts.
“Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.” – Proverbs 17:14
James 4:1 – Fighting comes from our desires and conflicts within.
“What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you?” – James 4:1
Matthew 5:22 – Anger leads to serious consequences.
“But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment.” – Matthew 5:22
Proverbs 18:19 – A sibling’s conflict is hard to mend.
“A brother wronged is more unyielding than a fortified city; disputes are like the barred gates of a citadel.” – Proverbs 18:19
Galatians 5:15 – Fighting can destroy relationships.
“If you bite and devour each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other.” – Galatians 5:15
Romans 12:18 – Live peaceably if it is possible.
“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” – Romans 12:18
Ephesians 4:31 – Let go of bitterness to prevent fighting.
“Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.” – Ephesians 4:31
Proverbs 20:3 – Avoiding conflict is wise.
“It is to one’s honor to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel.” – Proverbs 20:3
John 13:34 – Love should reign over conflicts.
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” – John 13:34
1 John 4:20 – Real love overcomes sibling anger.
“Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar.” – 1 John 4:20
Proverbs 15:1 – A gentle answer can turn away wrath.
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” – Proverbs 15:1
1 Peter 3:9 – Don’t repay evil for evil.
“Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult.” – 1 Peter 3:9
Matthew 18:15 – Address conflicts directly.
“If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you.” – Matthew 18:15
Philippians 2:3 – Value others above yourselves.
“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” – Philippians 2:3
Ephesians 4:2 – Be patient and bearing with one another.
“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” – Ephesians 4:2
Matthew 5:9 – Peacemakers are blessed.
“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” – Matthew 5:9
Proverbs 24:29 – Avoid vengeance against your sibling.
“Do not say, ‘I’ll pay you back for this wrong!’ Wait for the LORD, and he will avenge you.” – Proverbs 24:29
Romans 14:19 – Pursue peace and mutual edification.
“Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification.” – Romans 14:19
Colossians 3:13 – Forgive as the Lord forgave you.
“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone.” – Colossians 3:13
Proverbs 12:18 – Words can pierce like swords.
“The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” – Proverbs 12:18
Luke 6:31 – Treat others the way you wish to be treated.
“Do to others as you would have them do to you.” – Luke 6:31
1 Corinthians 1:10 – Unity among brothers is crucial.
“I appeal to you, brothers and sisters, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree with one another.” – 1 Corinthians 1:10
Proverbs 27:17 – Iron sharpens iron.
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” – Proverbs 27:17
Hebrews 12:14 – Strive for peace with everyone.
“Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy.” – Hebrews 12:14
Proverbs 10:12 – Hatred stirs up conflict.
“Hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs.” – Proverbs 10:12
1 John 3:15 – Hate equates to murder in the heart.
“Anyone who hates a brother or sister is a murderer.” – 1 John 3:15
Matthew 18:21-22 – Forgiveness should be limitless.
“Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, ‘Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?’ Jesus answered, ‘I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times!'” – Matthew 18:21-22
Psalm 133:1 – Unity among brothers is beautiful.
“How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity!” – Psalm 133:1
Proverbs 6:16-19 – God despises discord among brothers.
“There are six things the Lord hates, seven that are detestable to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are quick to rush into evil, a false witness who pours out lies and a person who stirs up conflict in the community.” – Proverbs 6:16-19
Philippians 4:2 – Seek harmony and agreement.
“I plead with Euodia and I plead with Syntyche to be of the same mind in the Lord.” – Philippians 4:2
2 Timothy 2:23 – Avoid foolish arguments.
“Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels.” – 2 Timothy 2:23
Final Thoughts
Fighting among brothers can lead to pain and division. It’s essential to strive for peace, love, and understanding in our relationships. The scriptures emphasize the significance of harmony, forgiveness, and patience. By following these biblical principles, we can bridge gaps and heal rifts between us. Sibling relationships may encounter conflicts, but they can also teach valuable lessons about love and reconciliation.
To live according to God’s design, let’s be quick to listen and slow to anger, remembering that strong communication can mend wounds. Embracing understanding and showing love towards our brothers can lead to healing. If you’re feeling conflicted, I encourage you to read more about Bible verses about temptation or explore Bible verses about gossip to reflect on your communications with others.
Explore more about making peace in your life by checking out our resources on pride or prayers for peace in our family.